Great !!!!! I am so glad you seem to have found someone involved in actual care for ray.... Dan is finally moving Into another stage but last year it sure would have been nice to have someone, any one .. And I did. But not a true specialist.....and after meeting ray and talking with him... I know he is there right under the surface.. And in reality he has more cognition than Dan, which can be depressing for ray.. The ying and yang of those two....I am excited to order that book as well..... You know just the other day right after x mass Dan was watching tv I dint pay attention to what it was but..it seemed like this persons world was in constant flux.. In the end it turned out the guy was a young undiagnosed Alzheimer's victim.. And usually a young victim of this gets a particularly aggressive form of the disease... Anyhow, Dan got worked up and decided maybe he had Alzheimer's and insisted on. Looking in every nook and cranny of the house to make sure nothing had changed... The whole while Weston ..grand baby was sleeping in his crib ..it was all I could do to keep him out of the room.. Oh thank god for pat ..what a true gem of a person... I sure wish that agency could see their way to understanding ray needs a very special type person and pat is for ray... So for goodness sakes figure out a way to contract her in more... Money always has to rule ... To bad the doc can't order pat for you....thanks so. Uch for the update I have wondered and wondered but knowing you have been sick ..waited till you felt up to posting!!!!nancyl