as I have said it before, due to my own immigrant experiences I firmly believe that when you work harder you get lucky & prosper financially. I know we did, & as I have seen lot of immigrants here in our state prosper. So my view on people who are still struggling is they are not working hard or smart way. hubby completely disagrees with me, he was like lot of people work hard & still don't reach where some of us have reached. So there is luck involved there too. he is such a kind & humble guy & no arrogance over how he succeeded in life where he really started with negative balance in this country & worked his way up from minimum wage work to where he is today. Some days I pinch myself that I got so lucky in marrying this guy he is so different than me but he allows me to see complete picture. he indeed completes me sounds like movie line lol

Asha