Or may be turn green with rust too!!!!

boy, how true.. The only thing ya can do is try, the rest is up to them and their God...

BTW, since my memory is fleeting, have I told you how I LOVE you catisms, they really suit kitties to a T....

t tend to look at things a little differently...i think that you have to take the sum total of all of the interactions that a person has with you to determine whether or not they're a freind. i have had people who treat me like 'gold' during a crises because of their own sick needs, so that the 'gold' is really 'fool's gold', or worse.

BTW, how is your husband doing, and how are you and your family holding up?

sandy