Sue,

That happened to my Mom, when My hubby (then boyfriend were over.) WE all 3 acted like it didn't happen. I feel sorry for you though, it must a not of been the most pleasant sounds!

-Good Luck,

-Amy

I would sit down and have a talk with him.. How old is he?

I would buy condoms and say theses are for you to use, when you need more let me know. Explain not only for sex and pregnancy but also for STDs. It is easy to be embarrased but it is a fact of life.

I think you really need to be open and honest with him.

I had a teenage pregnancy. When my daughter was 13 I sat down and explained the facts of life. I also told her "lines" boys would use to try to get her to have sex. When she was 16 and dating I boy I did not like we sat down and had another "talk". We went to the doctor's office and she got birthcontrol pills. I said this is not so you can have sex with everyone. This is so you don't have to go through a teenage pregnancy.

She had my grandson at age 26. She is grateful that I sat down and explained all this to her.

Bonnie

hey Janice :

why are you getting aggrevated about this, kids grow up, and they do stuff too, let them enjoy just tell them they better be able to handle baby if that's what u r worried about. I hope i don't have to worry about this for decade

Asha

Son is 21, girlfriend is 18. Neither one is mature enought to be a parent/provider for a family.

What is so alarming to me is that so has told me several times he wants to wait for marriage...his idea, I didn't force it on him.

The sound was of her panting, non-stop.

ewwwwww....I feel your pain.

Hi Janice

what can you do? what can you say? ... they live in your house so you can say a bunch.. doesn't mean they'll listen but you can stop it under your roof..

You are not being hypocritical, just a good smart parent.. sure they will resort to the car or someone' else's home or motel.. but you're not enabling or condoning their activity.

I may sound naive or self- rightous but my first wife and i had a child out of wedlock; i was 21, she was 18.. we weren't mature enough or ready for a fanily..as i recall I had 35 cents in my pocket and overdrawn at the bank when our daughter was born.. it was a tough road both financially and mentally. I did many dumb and dangerous things in my youth and when i saw my daughter heading down some of those paths i let her know.... ..now maybe i was beig hypocritical but i wasn't being stupid.

i agree with much of Bonnie's comments.. have them use condoms and birth control if only for STDs .. but letting them know you don't want them "messing around" in your house is the proper thing IMHO

Tom