I once asked a man who was in a wheelchair how long before it felt normal? He said after five years you get used to it, after ten years you can't remember living any other way.

It is nice when you get up and have a normal day. As a caregiver that is it for me. Ray has many deficits and I have to do a lot for him but somedays, after seven years, it just seems as if we have had the kind of day people of our age and lifestyle (early retirees) would have had.

Sue.

Bravo!!! You have a great guy there!!!

Sue,

Interesting - I seem to have adapted more or less right now, not that I like or accept it, but I have a really difficult time remembering how I was pre-stroke.

Robyn,

I really do. We were high school sweethearts and our dads worked together so we have known each other since we were very young. Although I am really lucky, I don't know how lucky he got :big_grin:

VERY...he's still there and still loving you! That's a good thing!!!

justsurviving--Bob is lucky. You are full of life and seem ready for any challenge that comes your way. I enjoyed reading about all your accomplishments and strides. Good for you. Take Care.