I have been known to have an awful temper and to have lost impulse control and be verbally abusive, vindictive and many times an outright witch with a capitol B. But I can truely say that the times where I haven't had to do or say a thing and reap the benefits of someone getting their just desserts have been few and far between. I know the politically correct side of me is lecturing myself on how wrong it is of myself to be enjoying this whole situation so immensely. I'll explain and give the cliff notes version as follows.

My almost X spouse emotionally left me after I stroked. He moved in the new girlfriend the night I moved out, it was someone I knew and didn't like so I was doubly hurt and insulted. Anyway I found it in my heart to forgive them both and sincerely wished them well. I told the two of them that to their faces and we've had a cordial amiacable relationship since.

So the girl friend calls me up and then starts complaining about the flaws she sees in my X, she tells me that she blames me that I was married to him for more then 20 years, I should have had him trained better. Well I reminded her that that was her job now, no longer my problem......I know it is dysfunctional of her and alittle too much information to be giving me (Ya think??!!) don't give me a front row seat in your problems. Besides it is true that a X wifes revenge is letting the other woman have him. :yukyukyuk:

Maybe I am enjoying this far too much. But ya gotta love vengeance when it occurs naturally. :giggle:

Yin