i've heard blogging is good for the soul
OK, (big breath) now that I am here, i don't know what to write or where to start.
I am a caregiver for my husband who is a stroke survivor, he had a stroke Jan 14, 2007. It seems he is also suffering from Central Pain Syndrome. I can not imagine the extent of pain that he feels on a daily basis, and I feel very helpless cause there is nothing I can really do to help him with the pain. My instinct is to just hold him, but he says that just makes him hurt more!! My natural instinct is to care and nurture people, and it seems that is taken away from me in this case.
I met Dave in May of 1998. It seems like we feel in love instantly our age difference didn't matter at all, he is 17 years older then I am. We dated/lived together for 8 years then got maried in March 2006, like I said he then had a stroke in Jan 2007.
Lately all Dave is doing is complaining every 5 minutes of ALL aches and pains, I know that he hurts ALOT, and I feel bad for thinking /writing this but he has to stop! He still has to look at his cup as half full NOT half empty. The complaining is so constant that I find I am having a hard time sometimes showing him sympathy. I hate that feeling in me it is out of character for me. So i kekep reminding myself that he can not help how he feels, just like I can not help those inconsiderate thoughts of mine.
If anyone reads this I am sorry for these feelings that I have.. try not to think badly of me. I do love Dave immensely and would do anything for him, just sometimes it gets a tad tough.
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