hugs for you.

I understand what you are saying concerning the VA... they can be very frustrating. I have taken my husband Dave there everyday for a week straight until someone finally listened to me!! I have demanded certain tests when the dr's have seemed at a loss.... remember you know better then anyone else when something is not right concerning your husband. Don't let anyone undermine you!

I find that the computer (google) offers me alot of insight and direction on Dave's medical conditions, which is helpful when I go to the dr's.

Hang in there, I find sometimes calling the triage dept at VA works well.

Make sure that you try and take a little time for yourself each day to keep your batteries recharged.

Anne

Oh dear Ruth, I can relate to all of this too well. Ray's last stroke almost went undiagnosed as the little doctor in ER asked me to describe what he was like before so she had an idea of a change in his condition! Makes me cry to think of it.

I've read your latest blog and will reply to that too. But this one really touched my heart.

(((Hugs))) from Sue.