Phoenix

your writing and description made it seem like I was there, WOW! I was able to visualize it im my mind. Glad you got to go...you rock!

I hear ya Phil and understand. I too, sometimes think that way though not as much in the beginning as I used to. I use to always think that I was the good sibling who would always have the best of everyone's interest, honor my Mom and Dad and be good to people. Never tried to jack anyone up like a certain sibling of mine. Why did it happen to me when I was the good one? Well, never got an answer and it drove me nuts... I'm over it now and just concentrate on appreciating life and my family. I am thankful I am still here for my disabled daughter who is just growing so fast. It's hard Phil..I know but try not to dwell on it so much or you will go batty. It's not fair..we didn't ask to stroke but what can we do now that it has happened?.. we just have to keep on working hard on recovering as much as we can. I still feel mad and hurt at how this stroke has changed my life so much, especially, when I feel I did everything right and tried to be a good person and see all the others that use and abuse this or that. Even more so when I look at my disabled daughter and say "Why her? It's not fair!" It takes bit but I can usually calm myself down, take a deep breath and try to remember that things happen for a reason and that I have to make the best of my life not just for me but for my daughter as well. And it always comes back to me thinking, "I wouldn't wish a stroke on anybody" It's the pits Phil and a major bummer but we just have to move ahead and not keep wondering about the fair and not fair that Life throws at us. Hang in there Phil..you are awesome! :hug:

Three things....hhhmmmmm?..three things...three, three, three :uhm: hmmmmmm? I got it! I'm still hot, sexy and beautiful!...yeah, that's it, that's it...LOL! :roflmao: Is that what you mean Jan?...lol! nah! I'm just kidding. As you can see, trying to still be funny is one of my three, another is laughing (makes me feel good)only three Jan? that's too hard..I got a whole list.. :cloud9: I'm still thoughtful of others I feel, determined and open minded and SASSY (I'm using a nice word..lol!) Okay, I'll stop now..good topic Jan :big_grin:

Pretty Groovy Katrina! Guuurrllllll! You got this!

Gary, You are so thoughtful and kind. I will definately show my upport for Kyle and his family. Thank you for doing this for him.

I admire you for at least giving it a go...what's that saying?..."You never know until you try it out" or something like that. I hope the pendulum will swing in the way you need it and want it to be...Good Luck in your job hunting..you're awesome!

:hiya: That is great Ken! I'm sure your daughter will have a blast here in the States. Your water therapy sounds awesome...have fun!

You'll do great in rehab Sherry. Looking forward to hearing all about it when you return. Stay strong!

Welcome Coni to Strokenet! :bouncing_off_wall: Introduce yourself in the new member forum and tell us about yoourself.

:giggle: BRAVO DONNA!.....BRAVO!

Your poem was wonderful. I echo everyone else and I am sorry to hear your problems but if you feel safe in going and I'm sure your boyfriend and friend will look out for you...go ahead..you are an adult. Let your Dad know you appreciate his concern but you must have a life and do what you can to make it as normal as possible. Talk with your Dad if you can...he just really cares.

Glad you are okay you silly bear! All because you didn't want velcro..lol! Take it easy please!

Pogo is a cutie patootie...Glad no fur was flying with his brief visit. It's great Kristi got to go to the parade and when spring comes, they'll be no stopping Donna on her scooter :bicycle:

Yes Fred...God is in charge. Tiger played here in Pebble Beach in the USA Open a few years ago....I didn't go to the tournament (it was crazy) but watched him on TV. And this place was also crazy when he played in the AT & T.

I have a request...on the next cruise could you please put me in a Louie Vuitton luggage please?...LOL! Did you say anything to the hotel about the blood-stained comforter? I mean that is like ICK! but anyway..glad you had a groovy time and all is well since the booze was safe...lol!

Way cool! Love The Cure too! Have a blast and be safe. Expectt to hear a full report on it..LOL!

Congrats Katrina on all you are accomplishing! You go Girl! Now tell you scholars they owe you a dinner for getting them a free dinner with the Chancellor.

Spot on Dude! You're a bloody well fine chap! Whenever you go to London tell U2 I said "Hi!"...LOL! Rob, go for it and hop on that plane...or whenever the opportunity arrives next time. Hey, I see they are making a live action GI Joe movie..cool. Let's see, what's next?...Thundercats?...lol...that would be interesting. I'm eagerly awaiting for Iron Man to hit the theaters.

Hang in there Donna...you are doing marvelous and so is Kristi. Never mind "that lady" in AZ and your Bro will come around. Just think about when you get the scooter...Wheeee! You can give Crystal and Lilli a ride..even Kristi...lol! You're right about SSDI pay but you are doing it...you go Guuuuurrrrlllll!

Chin up Kimmie...things will get better. I know you have a lot on your mind but as you often say in your posts"DON'T GIVE UP HOPE!

Congratulations Katrina on your great gpa..wow! you are awesome Guuuuurrrrrlllll! Great you got those gadgets to help you out, that is a good company to get disability assistance gadgets. So now you are a TV Star..lol! your story is special and you should be proud of yourself..we are all so proud of you. Best of luck with your insurance for botox and the review board for driving

Spring cleaning time again Sue? Geesh! It just seems like you mentioned spring cleaning not to long ago in chat...but then again I realize the term Spring Cleaning is not just used for the season...spring cleaning can go on all year long..lol!Thank you for that little story of your Mom...it was comforting...She seems so content and I hope so to that we don't have to lose our minds to find serenity.