ok who turned on the heat, i'm dying here. our rental home's ac is not working correctly, so the landlord(my brother in law) is trying to fix it today, a compressor issue i'm told which is under warranty. patience doesn't always come easy to me but i'm trying. today is shower day with my lady from home health and that will cool me off i hope. the ac blower in car went out too but my son matthew fixed that for us. since my stroke, my body cannot handle heat well at all, i get to hot, then the bad headaches come. we had just put a new ac on our house in az before they took it from us which i should have taken it with me, LOL they put them on the roof out there so it would have been a big hassle to get it down. it sure kept our house at a nice temperature in the summer, so i was always comfortable. here it's a different heat with more humidity. maybe i need a baby pool outside. like i could get in and out, not, but its a nice cooling thought. i got some away time a few weeks ago. my siblings and i went to okla to see my dad for his 86th birthday. we had a great time and so did daddy. it was just a weekend trip but we can do more trips since i am closer now. my brothers wife's family puts us up at their house, cooks and really are wonderful people i feel so at ease when i'm there. i don't worry about falling, walking outside, etc. the anxiety i usually have is gone maybe because i know there are people everywhere to help me if i need it. anyway it was a nice short trip i got to see other family members i hadn't seen in awhile other than on facebook, lol
i get home and had received a letter from a attorney telling me that one of the credit card debts we owed has taken me to court. LOVELY these people are ruthless, i was paying the card each month, until hubby's income stopped coming in. i had payed this card off twice before in the past, then we had to use it again and the balance grew. they turned it over to collections and i spoke to those people explaining my situation, husband died, no home, having to move, on disability, etc, hopefully thinking they would just write it off, well i guess not, so now i need to talk to someone here to work on my behalf to get this resolved, or a judgement against me would be a bad thing, garnishing my bank account. like i have money to pay someone to help me with this, not. but i'll call them just to hear my options. you can't get blood out of a turnip but they think they can. discover card is not my friend but it was when i was still working and able to pay it off. haha the hits just keep on coming folks!! we had alot of credit card debt, i think bankruptcy is the only option, but that is costly as well. just more bs in my life after stroke. the grandsons are the joy that the bad things can't take from me.