My hubby, prefers my post stroke personality changes. He says that I am not so high strung, easy to get along with. We rarely fight/argue anymore (we didn't much before) Maybe that is because I am happy being home with kiddo and being domestic/lazy. I am not spending time dealing with someone else's little brat at school. I did actually use to enjoy my job, teaching, now I think I would hate it!! Now I can see the side of the fence when people would say"Oh, I could never do what you do!" My patience is gone, out the window.