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Just Saying Something And Thinking Back A Few Years!


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I been reading blogs and comments on the message board so I'm just saying something and maybe reminiscing a little! In my little mind I just don't think I will get back to the person I was prior to the stroke But I am happy with what I got back already if I don't get anymore back. I will not quit working on my recovery and therapy for sure because I know darn well that helps and got me to where I am now!!

 

I read on here where so many survivors want to be like they were before the stroke and they say they can't take anymore! I think we just have to be realistic in that we lost a lot in a matter of seconds or minutes but it takes a life time to recover whether it's fully or just a little bit! I know it depends on what each person has lost or can't do any more what they want to do with both sides of their body! We all know each stroke can be very different as well as recovery and how long it takes!!

 

That being said, when I read Nancy's blog about the motor home I wanted to cry because I want to have that life again but I can't now in my condition! My wife keeps saying we ain't getting another motor home and if we do later on it will be a small one! So I had stopped thinking and dreaming about owning one again!! I'll be satisfied just getting better in walking and moving my body around better than I do now! The rest is history but when I read it here it hits me really hard! I probably won't be bowling again either as a Pro like I was! Life goes on!

 

I'm still a happy camper and give my wife much credit for my thinking about life after stroke! We still got a life to live with what we got left! I'll just keep drinking the lemonade from the lemons I got!!

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oh yea thats all we can do is just do the best that we can fred and you will do well fred you have a great sense of humour

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at least you havent lost the recipe for your lemonade--- i hope.... and fred you never know you might get a visit from me-- and you can relive for a day or two... just going to slowly build on our dreams a couple hundred miles at a time nancyl

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Thanks Lenny,

 

I believe having a sense of Humor helps to relieve the suffering as a survivor when you can keep thinking it's not as bad as it looks!! A smile is a frown turned upside down and you just feel better about yourself! If you're always mad, sad, or angry because of your physical condition it makes for a bad day in your life!

 

Nancy,

 

You and Dan got a home away from home at my house! I got a slab to park the RV with hook ups beside my house for water, electric and sewage! You can take a break, I got an extra bedroom furnished with cable TV, Internet, phone and an easy chair with vibration massage! The only thing is it's upstairs as with all my bedrooms! I can take you'll onto the military base to shop tax free and meet the handicap soldiers I help to mentor! Oh and you can restock up on food at the commissary for the RV! I can send you an email with my cell number!

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Fred :

 

I love your attitude, you are making best lemonade out of your lemons, I personally feel that is wise way to go, when you keep on resisting what it is, you ruin your present day which is the only thing guranteed to be there, so I believe in going with flow & enjoying & appreciating blessings along the way.

 

 

Asha

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FRED,

GREAT ATTITUDE! THE LEMONS ARE GETTER SWEETER EACH DAY. KEEP ON KEEPING ON!

-WILL

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