i thought i posted this before -- what do i do??we do??
i wrote this last night and it is gone today - so i must have messed up something... dan the king of refusing to eat drink and now take his meds has managed to get himself into the hospital... the direction it looks like this is taking is-- a G tube it will solve ( i hope) the hyderation,nutritional and medicine issues.. But is it the right thing to do?? I mean for sure it is a ethical decision or a question of ethics and morals... do i his spouse have the right to impose a procedure on him just because i can ( i have gurdianship with medical) ... i believe i can get him to agree but the Q is still the same is it right..do i take another piece of his control?? even though he is hurting himself --- he had a grandmal seizure today that came after a few petite mal seizures..all because of his medicaion refusals.. and the food and liquids have been a longterm issue.. what is right ? what is wrong?? yes i want your opinions please do not be brutal just honest..nancyl
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