well dan is now refusing his meds-- and he will not drink his supplements or eat -- so i'm going to have to make a decision... do i have a g- tube put in? it would solve the hyderation,nutrition and medication problem.. but it takes away more control from dan who is already with none..is it right to impose a medical procedure on him cause i can ( i am his legal gaurdian with medical) so yes i can make it happen ---- but is is right?? It is a big dilema... a moral dilema... remember although dan has much intellegence-- he is diminished compliments of the stroke--- so am i ,by not doing the procedure doing him justice as his gaurdian??? no answers, just more questions... I do want all to " weigh in" on their opinion.. I am pretty fragile emotionally right now please be truthful but not brutal..nancyl