Dan is a challenge
I don't know what's in the air with him, but we are projected to get 9 inches of wet icky snow...sleet... Ice. Here in ND... Dan though we should drive to the casino 100 miles north where even more yucky weather was/ is projected.... I showed him the radar we agreed we would go play pig wheel instead... Here in town... Then he changes it up again on me and insists we go to the casino.. Full blown tantrum, so we sitting outside the local bar and he actually grabbed my finger and pushed it back trying to get me to put the keys back in the ignition... So I let him sit for awhile to see the weather blow in..... And finally he gave in and said go home then.... So Michael my pseudo son who is moving in to help me with Dan took him home and put him to bed, and Beth gave him his pills ..amazing he took them, but continued to be a CRAB... Like I controls the weather.... But I did not come home right away.. I visited with a friend for like a hour or so, I do t want him to think he gets to control my every move... Although he very much does... But no way was I gonna kill us both on the road cause of his tantrum...he just got locked in a thought and decided he was gonna do whatever it took to force his will....problem of course is whatever lesson I teach him... He forgets and the whole pattern repeats Ina matter of weeks... Cause those of you who know me, know this has played out so much I should just type ditto.... Every two weeks...but I write for my sanity, and again so others know they are not alone, the road map, where we have been .... But honestly I just can't see anyway of avoiding this pattern.... Except perhaps the weather and sunshine plays a part... And some seasonal affective disorder is going on..... He refuses vitamin d...and I have a full spectrum light but maybe a real sad light is something I should invest in... Anyhow..... DITTO as I said before LOL cause if I don't LOL I will COL. Cry out loud...nancyl
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