compromise
well the condo ladies came back to me today..... they wanted to negotiate the concrete... i thought about it and said, yes i will compromise. We settled on one side walk from the drive way to the patio.. i made it clear to them that i absolutely could have both if i wanted them with all the ADA rules but I am not here to make anyone miserable.. and then i said you know if the biggest gripe anyone has around here is because of the cars parked in my driveway - i will park them in the common driveway.. i have not done this in the past because the condo rules state that is for guest parking.. and the ladies ( 2 of them came ) said really? i said heck yah, i dont really care where i park.. if the the mirror guy cant stand to look out his window via his mirror and see my cars instead of my driveway then if you all dont care i will just park in the common driveway... and i pointed out i really dont care where i park, i just cant for dans sake park on the garage.. it is a ridiculous choice i agree not to park in it but it is his and it is one of the few he can have the say so over... The only thing i didnt think of was that now with my cars gone the mirror guy has a much less obstructed view to my patio.. and truth be known that creeps me out... so at a later date , if i have furthur trouble i am going to request his mirror be taken down or i will put my cars back.. but for now i will see how it goes.. dan only drank 2 swallows of boost with his pills both am and pm.... so at least he is taking his pills... but has ate nothing and drank about 4-6 ounces of a coke today.. thats it.. he was in a ok mood got up and got dressed and sat out and watched TV , but refused to go to walmart or anywhere with me.. i even offered up the casino.. nope, so i just dont know.. he still is as cognizant as his norm... not overly unstable when walking, has urine, not a lot but some.... so i just don't know... until there is a medical need , not much i can do.... sooner or later it will happen either he will become disoriented or have a seizure ....it is what it is... i feel better today about things not so out of sorts... i think his strokeaversary weighed heavy on my mind.. and although dan and i have not specifically discussed he knows this is about the time "IT" happened 2 yrs ago... and he sees he just isent where he thought he would be... when michael comes over ( as he does everynite) to see dan , him and dan exchanged their manly comments LOL.. and dan sort of picked up his arm and just plunked it to indicate how "useless he feels".... it must be universal sorta as a indicator to themselves as when i was in NY with Colleen and Ray .. Ray did the same thing, and it was something Colleen and I talked a little bit about... well we are working through our crisis, but man i wish this would come to a head soon.. my arm and neck just tingles from stress... i have had it before, runs right into my fingers... we have our big st paddys day run here in jamestown this weekend.... it raises like half a million for a handicapt kids camp here, and also some money is given to help cancer families with out of pocket expenses ... but the downtown streets get over run with residents, alumni and students ( college) all doing this run from bar to bar... they dress in crazy costumes and for the most part it is a pretty fun even just to watch.. if dan doesent pull himself together soon we wont be able to go and people watch... last year there was a guy in a wrestling singlet... that was way to small for him and he painted himself green... looked like a naked green guy....it is very much an adult fun day... all most mardi gras in feeling, yes the whole exchange of beads are done.... it is fun untill about 9 pm ish then the drinkers get a little mean and i would rather just go home, so we do.... but until that time it is sorta fun to just watch the crazies in people, who for the most part are just having a good time and raising money for some very good causes... not one penney gets lost to administration type of fee's ... the guy who started it, still organizes it every year, it is his legacy... running of the green they call it, but most the time it should be called runnin in the white slushy snow.... well i am gonna turn in just another interesting day in stroke world USA..... livin the dream, livin the dream.........nancyl
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