In my case alone we both think it was guidance from God to get her from New Orleans, LA to Killeen Texas and a job at the bank. Again God guided me to that bank for a transaction by another teller. She was standing by as a teller's supervisor and overheard our conversation and came over to assist the teller with my transaction.

I was in the hunt for a lady friend so long story short, we got married and that was 16 years ago. The best move I ever made in my whole life, it had to be God in the plan!!!!

10 years ago I had a stroke she quit the bank to care for me and a year later I got better she started at another bank and is still there about to make branch manager from supervisor being there 9 years!!

Asha, for me it was all God. I came to America for a "new start", my daughter father was a piece of work, so I came for a new start. Then i got a job at a community center working with kids. A supervisor said she wanted me to meet her brother, when I did I said to myself, he is good looking, but no money. Now there was another young man after me, he was a policeman, and flashing money around. One night Iam praying and a voice said to me loud and clear " he is the one for you, look at his heart. I listen, and his heart is wonderful, and we are 21years strong and have a great son! Money is not everything, been happy is. Thank you Lord!

Yvonne

Both - for certain god is in our lives guiding us , but many things are still our own free will - however the more we love god and follow his teachings then we are doing as god would like... just like we do for our children i think he does for us.... we guide ( tell ) our children with the really big things in life - (shout warnings) ---- but our ultimate goal for them is to do right on their own, make good decisions .. just as god wants that for us... i don't think that was "exactly" what you where pondering , but i guess i was compelled to write it ? And i certainly do agree in divine intervention and know there is bigger better things awaiting us...