My return to work
well i have greatly enjoyed my "return to work"…. But - oh yes their is that but - Dan is not happy, same old tricks -- not eating, not drinking, not taking his meds…. I can tell a seizure will be coming soon…. I got him to take his pills this morning, but tonight who knows…. and it might be the seizure aura is the reason for the mood and not the mood causing the aura…. or maybe no seizure is coming - heck i have no idea !! which cam first the chicken or the egg??? The kids are encouraging me - but we are having interfamily issues …. we are a close loving family , but maybe a little to close… makes for drama which is not helping dans mood. But we are his family and even if he don't like the grand kids - they are OURS… like it or not…. I will probably call sara or debbie or colleen for a pep talk or all 3 - who knows - thank god for stroke net…. I would be insane - if i did not have the connections stroke net has provided ….. i am very conflicted - feeling guilty - sad- tired- mad- --- do i give up ? do i go forward… do i cry - do i yell ?? what am I allowed to have ? What is Dan allowed to have. 3 years of total 24/7 care from me almost exclusively is it enough ?? Am i asking to much? I just need a couple months to solidify my skills . Then i can fit the job to my life better… ARGHHHHH
HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Living the Dream !!!
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