drawing a line…..
as always our household is busy. I have a doc appt on monday to see about my issues -- surgery coming i am sure …i just can't shoe the tired -ness and yes i work now after a few years of not working but dan makes me pay in blood for that ( sorta literally) so updates --- god i am sick of my life the drama , the never knowing the plain out BS …. we will start with drawing the line - i am exhausted dan insisted i go with to church although our son also went ( 2 weeks ago i had to leave for 20 min and nap in the van - a lady kept a eye on him so i could do that - i had worked with her at the jail and got this bad headache boom and had to lay down) now today he forces me to go with - i didn't mind that much , but i just want some time ALONE - NO RESPONSIBILITY !!! so i go to church out to eat then to apple bees have my one drink and it almost knocked me out.. so i go home and dan tried to force me to go out to play cards with him… i was in my pajamas and said nope , and he gave me that "look" and said fine and turned to go back to the bedroom and i said nope - go to bed then but i am tired , i am sick and i don't want to go . my son said lets go dad, and dad decided after a moment to go, relief….. but boy the pure hate look i got -- i had just vacuumed the house, changed his attend twice , wiped up his bottom from BM , changed bedding , been to church, been to supper, picked up grandkids toys and what nots from the yard, swept the patio and i get the - you lazy bitch look from him….. OK now back up last week i had lab work done - my hbglb was 12 but the phlebotomist said from the draw and the look - no way was that a true 12 , than the ultrasound appt. -- the i bugged the ceo at the hospital about why my letter ref. dans speech therapist was not ever addressed- made him a little uncomfortable - but hey i want the best possible care for dan or at least a explanation from the horses mouth…. --- now a appt scheduled to see a surgeon on monday … and last week i don't even know i got it written dan had a six day food strike -- even ketones in his urine so dark i thought UTI - nope just himself starving himself…. then to the fair, which was fun , but in all honesty i wanted to just lay on a picnic bench and sleep …. visited with a old co worker i hadn't seen in years and got so tired just talking i thought i would faint…. got back to dan ( april had been watching him at the fair for the few minute break i got ) took him home - but at least he wasent food striking…. then yesterday morning / and the previous nite he got a toothache so bad i had to take him into the ER --- even his own request for a morphine shot … we had to kill the pain - to kill the pain… and only diabetics and stroke / nuero sufferers understand that… luckily the docs and nurses know us well and we got in and out .. as my sis from CO was up and and my brother and sis from 75 miles away all got together here at our house…. but i was trying to keep dan at peace ///// so we missed the parades - and all the small ND town 4th events ---- which is actually ok - tired as i am it was a good excuse i guess. but now dans tooth feels better - for a few days anyhow , i have already left a message on our dentists line saying -HELP -- need a asap appt for DAN… so now i am taking the few moments to jot down my life which just never ends… and oh crap forgot ---- Dans brothers wife ( from NC) died last thursday - and Dans sister from MN- kid got into a ATV accident ( hate those things) broke his wrist and got a concussion…. so bad news coming from his family---- STOP - LIFE - STOP … and my little man weston has a earache , and my granddaughter lily is just plain out a HIGH ENERGY CHILD --- they want to be here to "help me " and they do try but in reality - it makes me more tired…. so if i have surgery i will be screwed either way - i need the help but - i don't need the help --- so boring my life is not - never has been for very long…… i am gonna have medical bills coming out my you know what for all my issues with this obama care crap insurance i got… so like sarah and i think about her post a lot just laying there and crying -- that is me… -- dan says he don't care - sorry but i just don't care is his reply .. no empathy -- never show him a OWIE he will just poke it --- ok i am done for now… nancyl
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