So i finally had it up there moment.
I've never be through this nor have most of the people in my family. So..
I've been coming to my ex husbands to help with our son with school transportation and to fill the gaps that ex is gone for work in mornings.
OK so here's my beef::
I enjoy being up with my son, don't get me wrong but ,
I'm in my old house and with my stroke brain I have no concept of time so even though we have been divorced for 2 years, i'm always here.
I told him I need to have my own time for we are two different people now, Yes he is my son, almost 13 now . and yes I feel responsible for him which I'm not cutting him out of my life but..
What if I worked? He would have to fine someone to watch our son. Just because I don't work doesn't mean i can be used at your beckon call.
AM I WRONG?
He believes it's because I want to date and go out.. if so what business is it of his? Frankly I just want to learn to do it on my own. I was happy with helping my ex out but its so sporadic. I need that separation. I'm only 30 minutes away and I'm still going to see my son and still come up to help, just not as much.
sorry this made no sense im venting and can't think in a straight line