Sometimes life is depressing, we all have that.  I have to think back and say: "what if Ray did not have the first stroke in 1990?"  and "what if Ray did not have the two major strokes in 1999?" and there is no answer.  Life is what it is. (((hugs)))

I understand, we all have a time that we think back, and  "What if", that is the human in us. So have your " time, that i am going to be depress". Then "shake it off".   It is what it is, and you can not go back, have to look forward, Life goes on.  Great idea to be with your family and friends. 

Love Yvonne

Do what you can and keep yourself busy when possible life goes on every day and you want to be here and not miss any of it....

It may sound trite but it is good advice nonetheless: Don't focus on what you lost, focus on what you still have. Take care.

--Ron Alridge

I think about it all the time.

They say not to.

Like trying not to think about what you are looking at.

or try not to think about a robbery or death. only this is mine.

so I think about it. some real losses but are some exaggerated like would I really get that done. mostly I keep thinking about how can I still do what I want. maybe. maybe later on.