Like most people, I'm looking for that one person to truly love for the rest of my life. Now, I have Kathy but I was so desperate for that life long love that I settled for the one who agreed to marry me and paid for it.
Recently I've been talking with friends and soul searching and I found the one person that I can love the rest of my life unconditionally. It's funny how fate brought us together, but in return I know I'll be a much better person for it.
Learning to like this person physically has been a challenge in itself. Sure, they have their flaws, but who doesn't. The trick is to learn to see the inner beauty and realise that even with flaws they are the most beautiful person in the world. When they're 60, they might be wrinkled, plump, and sagging in strange places, but that in itself is the beauty of someone with experience.
The inner beauty can also take on ugly tones along with good ones. All you have to do is learn to merge these and see the person as a whole. No one is perfect, but it's the inperfections that make them unique. Stereotypes are made from noticing common threads inside people. But, people are unique when every aspect is meged together.
So, I meged the good, the bad, and the ugly and found that I love this person I have found. How was I able to go so long without realizing that the one that I could love forever was walking the earth?
Now I have to ask myself if I should have fun with everyone and not reveal who it is until possibly tomorrow. Or maybe I should go ahead and tell.
I love a good tease and think I'll wait. Besides, it will be a good moral lesson when everyone who reads my blogs finds out who this person is.
So, tomorrow I will let everyone know who I have found to love the rest of my life. And then you all will know who can mend a broken heart and bring a smile to a face that has seen too little smiles.
And since I know that I will be asked for clues, here are a few to keep you wondering until tomorrow.
1) They are a member
2) Their name is on my profile page
3) They have dark hair and blue eyes
4) They were a member the day I joined
Now, I'll let everyone go crazy in figuring out who it is. Just don't PM and annoy anybody on my budy list. Just have fun and try to figure out who it is, and I promise that my blog tomorrow will tell you if you are right or wrong. So just keep your suspentions in line and wait for the thrilling conclusion.