Two blogs about men, so here's one about women.
I won't even try to catagorize women. They are so diverse that I couldn't begin to do that, not to mention I know better . So here are my views on Miss Right, and not Miss Right Now.
There were 3 charateristics in a female I've been drawn too from an early age, that I still prefer. Blue eyes, southern accent, and wears glasses. All my family have blue eyes and I like familiar things. Even though I married a yank, I never lost my love for the southern accent, and my next wife will defently be southern. And I'm drawn to intelegence and in my mind glasses are an outward sign of intelegence (I know that's not always the case, but it's my blog so nah).
After many tried and failed relationships I started developing the list of traights I like and the list to avoid. Maturity was a big one on both lists. I actually dated a girl once that we were snuggling in front of a fire on a winter evening and she decided she wanted to wrestle around. Talk about a turn off.
The bad quality list is defently more interesting and longer than the good quality list, but the blog theme currently running is the ideal mate. So I'm going to stick with that topic .
The three items listed above are the only real physicall qualities I look for. I also like shorter women. The body type I'm most drawn to is classified as "resainance"; curvy with some extra padding in the right places.
I like women who are intelegent and have a wide range of topics they can discuss. There's nothing better than talking about movies one night, and then talking phylosophy the next. I also enjoy using my true vocabulary without having to give defenitions to words.
Emotionally I want a woman who can take care of herself and doesn't need a man in her life, but desires a man to protect her (a contradiction I know, but I've met them). Someone who gives without any need to take, so that the relationship is give and give instead of give and take. I want a woman who's idea of compromising isn't "it's my way or no way".
I want a woman who is "deep". Someone who can enjoy the finer things in life, but is equally happy outside roughing it. I want someone who is willing to be spoiled, but is equally capable of spoiling me wether I want it or not.
This list can go on a long time. I once did a lovers list to my ideal woman and it contained 50 items. Since that time, the list has grown. Maybe I'm setting my sights to high, but I'm not going to "settle" for anything but the best anymore in my romantic life. I know she's out there and we'll be the couple that everyone hates, because we're so happy together.