WOW! sis looks like you found yerself a gem huh?

oh.....well,i hear men are scarce around those parts,but still theres gotta be..........

that seems to be apravailing atatude "you handicaps" wanting something for nothing

i chalk to up too the regan youth"pull yer self up by you boot strap" ~sigh~

i['llstop nowbefore i start ranting best of luck hunting!

Pam-

in 1997, right after i had my stroke, i went down to Fla to visit my folks. my dad, who had had cardiac bypass surgery a month before my stroke and almost died as a result, was making fun of me because i was aphasic.

when we were first going out, John asked me, 'aren't you using your illnesses to get sympathy?'

now that they are both disabled in a similar manner, i have refrained from reminding them on a daily basis or saying 'i told you so' or 'payback's a b***h'

my dad is now very sorry that he ever made fun of me.

i must go upstairs and remind John of this pearl of lack of wisdom. he's been especially ornery this evening.

sandy

Pam:

I never knew you had married such a jerk, good you got rid of him, you know I have been told before, if you are really happy from inside recovery comes in real spurts, hindsight is u waited too long, u should have got rid of him as early as possible

Asha

Theres lots of things I could say but wont because it will start me off. You have got to lugh otherwise you would cry

Mary

Pam,

Good to know y are getting rid of him!

You seem very independent as much as y can be on your own.

Do you think it may be your ex does not want to come to terms with the fact that

y stroked? Denial maybe?

lorrainelm

Lorraine,

I know that my soon to be X, was mad I stroked and took it out on me, acted like it was my fault, ect... He is more like a overgrown child having a tantrum cause things weren't going his way. But that is all in the past, water under the bridge and I'm glad my life has one less piece of luggage in it!

Pam