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Teenagers HELP!


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"If I was a drinker I'd be in my favorite bar tonight." cocktail.gifbeer.gif

I just don't know how to get through to my new 13 year old girl. I guess that no one really knows how to get into a 13 year olds head, but I have sure been making the effort and getting no where fast. She got a detention at school today for being disrespectful and she dares say it was not her fault. yeahrite.gif I will back my child to the hilt when they are not treated right, but when they are wrong they pay the price. She actually expected me to be mad at the teacher, (one that I really can't stand) when she was sooooo wrong. She is mad that I told her the gas money for picking her up at school will come out of her pocket. That hit her where it really hurt. Now I am trying to figure out another punishment for taking up my time for having to go to school for the conference and for having to go back and pick her up on Wednesday after detention. It has been a while since I had a teenager. wicked.gif

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I probably wouldn't be in a bar, I'd be emptying a bottle of cheap wine. All I keep thinking is that my son is 14, only 4 therotical years left till he's "done". Hopefully I can hang in there that long, and he can survive without me being forced to kill him.

 

Maybe you could have your daughter do a chore that you normally do, and tell her you would have been able to do it yourself had you not been forced to go to the school. Cleaning a bathroom including the toilet and shower is always a fun one.

 

Good Luck,

Kristen

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Hang in there MM ... teenagers .. a "trying time" for both. They are trying some independence/ hormones kicking in/ peer pressure and seeing how far they can push you. If this teacher is not well liked, maybe you can go over what was said and instead of being disrespectful, give your daughter some ideas/ options on how the situation would have been handled better. maybe going to the guidence counselor or a teacher that she likes and talking it over. She may have reacted in the same manner she was "raised" before you got her.

 

I'll meet you for some chocolate martinis cocktail.gifcocktail.gif

 

Bonnie

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I'd take an 8 yr old anyday. Since last may, the 12 and 14 yr old's social life is like its exploded. And DH and I serve as chauffers..but I know they do have school pressures on them also...I remember teenagehood as being hard...seems like each day can bring new crisis..

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