Ray and I bumped into old girlfriends of his sometimes, I was good friends with the sister of one of them and didn't know.

I guess all you can do is smile and be gracious. And try not to be jealous if you are going to be seeing a lot of her and her kiddo.

Like Asha I always enjoy your blogs about family.

Sue.

Amy, just smile and give her the charm, after all she has a husband and you have yours....

(must not have been much connection if it only lasted 2 weeks)

I had a friend with an older daughter.... Found out not to long after dating John, he had been dating the daughter for a few months...

I thought it might be kind of awkward but it worked out. Bonnie

Amy,

Yeah, it is an awkward situstion. But it is the past, water under the bridge. Not a thing you can do to change it.

Besides look at it this way, no one is untouched and virginal in this world. Any past experiences help towards knowledge of what they know how to do and you benefit.

Pam

Amy:

its sticky and strange but oh well lucky for you, you got gemstone who sticks by his vows taken at wedding, big loss for her. life s strange sometime.

I met my hubby's x at party, felt pretty bad that now I have to meet her when I m all crippled, but what the hell I danced with my hubby that day so close, and could see all God's planning and miracle, if they wouldn't have parted, I would never have gotton such a wonderful hubby

Asha

Thanks for your reply Asha. I am very thankful she and my hubby didn't make it dating, b/c now he's mine.

-Amy

Amy:

maybe that's y life is so wonderful, and we don't know God's plans for us. we just have to flow with life and trust God that he will make it all worthwhile, we just do our karmas right.

Tanks for sharing your story, made me feel good about all my insecurities 2.

love

Asha