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look, look, my life is an open book


swilkinson

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I have been thinking about secrets. Hard not to with Pam's posting to think about. My life has always been an open book. If people want to ask me a question usually I give them an answer. This does not always apply to bodily functions. How I hate the question:"Have we opened our bowels today?" that you get from sweet faced nurses after operations. Of which I have had several. The answer is usually:"I have, how about you?"

 

Yesterday we went to the "new" church Ray and I will be going to now. It is about the same distance to the north as our old one was to the south, Unlike England where a village is a parish here we have geographical boundaries like electoral areas as parishes and the church is located somewhere in that area. Our new one is behind our local shopping centre. I think this is going to be an advantage. Sundays will be something like, go to church, grab some groceries. The club where we have our bistro meals is close by so maybe it will be go to church, go to lunch. I can see all kinds of possibilities with that one. Not too far away is a local movie theatre so....

 

When we went yesterday we took Tori who we will be having two Sundays in a row (long, tangled family story). We went in and someone greeted us there. One of the volunteers from Ray's Daycare. Nice, someone who knows Ray as he is and won't make judgements. Then another person from our past came over and so we felt, not exactly at home but recognised. I popped Tori into the Sunday school which at the moment is just a creche for the little ones, she was the first there and DELIGHTED to see colouring pencils, glue, pretty paper etc waiting for her, she was so pleased with her hour there, her parents will hear about it for the rest of the week.

 

When we went to collect Tori the pleasant couple in charge chatted a bit and then she asked: "Are you Sue *W*?" I confessed that I was. She looked pleased. Apparently we have a mutual friend who told her that when she went off to have her knee operated on, which is apparently soon, I "might take over the Sunday school for her". Well, I was floored!! Here I am saying no-one will know me and some people, knowing me by reputation only, already have jobs lined up for me. Yes, I did do Sunday school for many years but that was in the 80's. As I've done a lot of work with kids since it would be easy to pick up the skills, pilot a program and get back in harness, but I have some choices now.

 

There was a notorious criminal called Ronald Biggs, once reported to have spent some time in Australia, probably more than two years, some of it close to where we live now. He was wanted in Britain as a Great Train Robber and eventually fled to South America. He remained in Australia unrecognised. If it had been me someone would have come up to me and said: "Ronnie, mate, what are you doing here? Want to teach Sunday school? See ya there tomorrow."

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hey Sue:

 

I am so happy for you both, alredy found friends in new church, and even got job lined up that's pretty neat. see you were worried for no reason at all, God has already taken care of things for you

 

wishing you well on your new spiritual journey

 

Asha

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Sue,

Change- whether you've chosen it or it has chosen you- is always a bit frightening in the begining, isn't it? You imagine what it will be like, you can make an educated guess, but you never reaaly know for sure what the outcome will be until its unfolding before you.

 

I am so happy to hear that its sounds like this church will be a great fit into Ray's and your lives. There should have been no doubt about finding friends there- you make them wherever you go.

 

Kristen

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I am so glad to hear the new church was welcoming and making friends already. I knew you would.. you are such a sweet person.

 

wow already a Sunday school teacher!!

 

And the "perks" along the way endless possibilities.. lunch, shopping or a movie.

 

I think I am a lot like you when there is "change" but once it happens it usually turns out for the better.. I guess it's the anticipation of change from what is familiar.

 

Bonnie

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Sue,

I am so glad you guys have a great time. I thought you were worrying over nothing. It even sounds like your going to be even busier than before. Enjoy your new church.

Lynn

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Sue, I had said all will be okay. I thought you would run into other members from you alls old church. This way is about the same effect and you fit right in. Now you can be a happy camper again.

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Fred and all, thank you for your comments.

 

These people I met for the first time on Sunday are not "new friends" they may be in the future but at the moment they are people who have said "hello" once. Not one of them will ring and invite us to dinner, or offer to mind Ray while I do something in an emergency. Our friendships of 23 years can not be so easily replaced.

 

Think back to the last time you moved from house to house and remember how long it was before the new place felt like home, before the next door neighbours became someone you could rely on. That is how long this will take.

 

It was good that a couple of people said hello and I am grateful for that, but it will be a long time before what we had as a little church family at our old church is replaced by something equally familiar. As with stroke recovery it will take time and working at it to make us feel confident again.

 

Sue.

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Aaaah.... the great train robbery...I didnt realise he spent some time in Austrlia. I knew he was in South America....Brazil.

 

He is in prison now inEngland . I think ..maybe he has died.

 

He tried to get compassionate release a s he had a stroke in 2000. The guard he coshed over the head didnt get compassionate release :Soapbox:

 

 

Give thigs time Sue.....I hope they work out

Mary

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