Smiley,

Hang in there ... you're right in being not sad, keep up the good work. These are early days and by your blog if the swelling is down 50% that's really good.

Time is what your father needs, because his brain has undergone a great shock and it'll need time to recover.

Keep on blog'ing, you need a vent for all the emotions too !

Cheers,

Craig

Hi Tess

Glad there has been some progress, the swelling will go down gradually and then you will see what you Dad is going to be like.

It is hard to be young and full of life surrounded by people who are close to death. All you really have to do is appreciate that they are seriously ill and need the peace and quiet to get better. Maybe as you go to the hospital more often you will find that you can relax more. It is a bit like sitting in a garden. You can let the quiet thoughtful side of you out.

Looking forward to hearing more as your Dad progresses. :cheer: :cheer:

Sue. :friends:

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Hang in there, he's making progress, that's big news.

Smiley Baby,

You bet your dad has made good progress in a very short time! That's really great.

It's a very nice thing what you're trying to do, acting as normal as possible, but you shouldn't be afraid to let your own feelings show, too. Trust me, you don't have to pretend for your family. Let them give you some support, too, when you need it. Don't bottle up your emotions. It's going to be a long journey back for your dad.

Jean :friends: