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Life as it is Now


cindyst

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There is a first for everything in life now, and this is my first at writing things down. I was told back in the beginning that I should jot down every new thing happening in my life post stroke. Did I listen, hell NO. But now I think its time to do so. I stroked April 12, 2001 - 5 LONG years ago. Right side affected.

 

As I said before, I have been seperated for the past 3 years, while he saddled up with another (complete) woman. Meaning in his words, she wasn't a cripple. Did he hurt my feelings - CRUSHED ME.

 

My went for my driving test on June 30, 2006 and HOORAY - I AM ALLOWED TO DRIVE!!!!!!! :cheer:

 

Life is interesting - no longer can use my right arm but I keep trying. One day I will show the doctor's that they are wrong (I hope). I already did by learning to talk, walk, and remember things. Short term memory is the s--ts, but I still keep trying.

 

I am left handed so I made out okay. Doing everything one-handed is interesting but I can do it. For this I am grateful, and pat my own back every day.

 

Originally I told therapists that my family that it was their turn to take care of me (what a joke). The only family members I still talk to are my two kids. My Mom believes that I should be back to my old self (wouldn't that be nice), my sisters think I should be able to do more than what I am. I don't know, running a house, cooking every meal, laundry, and taking care of 2 kids and 2 dogs seems like a awful to deal with, non? As I said what a joke!

 

I also do volunteer work for Golf for the Physically Impaired - I am Secretary. I was told only about 4 weeks of work, I am now in month 5 and still no end in sight. But, it keeps me busy and I meet and greet alot of interesting people.

 

I think that is all I have to say this time around.

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Cindy,

 

We're happy to have you in our blog community! Better late than never, as they say. Many of us find it therapeutic to write the "good, bad and the ugly" going on in our lives and the feedback that you give and get here in the blogs is great, too.

 

Jean

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