Marie,

So sorry this happened to you. I can understand fully as it's happened to me as well. I've experienced too, trying to walk into an establishment, battling to open the door while managing my walker. I ended up doinf got myself as no one would assist me. I succeeded but it was frustrating.

Marie:

I am so sorry you had to deal with these kind of people, but I am sure you taught him lesson & he might be careful handling another disabled customer.

Asha

I have not had this experience myself, but I would have taken the opportunity to educate that sales person. I would have spoken directly to him and told him what I was looking for. Your sister should refer to you if this happens again. It is possible this person has dealt with others who could not speak for themselves. It doesn't help to get angry. I find it is better to give the other person the benefit of a doubt and let them know what I am capable of doing. And I always have a big smile on my face, If someone is rude, I ignore it. It is their problem.

Vi

I have not had this experience myself, but I would have taken the opportunity to educate that sales person. I would have spoken directly to him and told him what I was looking for. Your sister should refer to you if this happens again. It is possible this person has dealt with others who could not speak for themselves. It doesn't help to get angry. I find it is better to give the other person the benefit of a doubt and let them know what I am capable of doing. And I always have a big smile on my face, If someone is rude, I ignore it. It is their problem.

 

Vi

Good attitude. You are right, I should have educated him instead of getting angry, I let that chance slip away because now I walk and do my shopping by myself and I am not shy about asking for special services when needed, like packing my groceries at a serve yourself stores. Thanks for your comment.

Marie-Claire

24 year survivor