my last entry
Today I am writing my last entry. When I thought of doing this, I thought I could do this and help people just starting out in their new life after stroke, because I did it for 24 years but I find I have nothing to say, I guess I just lived one day at a time and faced whatever difficiulties one by one. I am optimistic in nature so I never stopped myself doing anything because I didn't see myself as handicapped. I did what I wanted to and if I didn't want to do something, I had a good excuse not to. That didn't happen often because soon after my stroke, I wanted to go back to my life. That meant moving out of my parents place(I was there as a condition for being released from hospital) and getting my kids back.
I can't say it was easy because it wasn't but I never thought one minute that things could be different. It wasn't normal for me at 30 years old to be living with my parents so I just had to move and the same thing about my kids. I could not fathom somebody else raising them so I was determined to get them back though this took five years to do I never gave up and then 5 years later my lawyer suggested joint custody and that seemed the best thing to do under the circumstances. That worked until my oldest started High School. So from then on until they had their own place, they pretty much decided where they wanted to be. I lived through pretty bad stuff with my kids but also some darn good times. My life changed drastically after my stroke and then again when I met the love of my life 20 years later. So I guess thats life and you have to learn to roll with the punches and make the best of difficult situations. So this is pretty much all I have to say. Thank you everyone for reading my ramblings.
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