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The truth hurts


preluki

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Finally after almost four years the truth about my brother came out. I sent an e-mail to my sister telling her that my brother had a Narcissist Personallity Disorder, and she believed me. All this time my parents blamed me and refused to listen to anything bad about my brother. They would even make excuses for him. Now, I do not know how to react to my parents. They basically allowed my brother to abuse me at will. Even after my counselor talked to my mother, she still believed the problem was mine.

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Doug,

As a teacher I can vouch for the fact that it's a near impossibility to get parents to see, let alone admit their children's faults it is like shoveling sludge against the tide. They in turn become defensive and attempt to deflect blame on us or others. Enablers (They enable their kids to never take responsibility) They knows and always have. You're wasting too much energy on something you'll never get them to admit.

By the way... what are Teddy's latest escapades? Any girlfriends?rabbits? combos of the two? we haven't heard about him in a while.

Be well,

Maria

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Doug:

 

I agree with Maria. I feel from your blogs you are spending too much time on analyzing "& proving to your parents how yor brother was wrong. how would that help you in moving on with your life. I too am looking forward to hearing from you about Teddy's adventures.

 

Asha

 

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