Yes there is something worse, "a man that doesn't know what is making him sick??" Or I should say be in so much pain lately?? In fact I'm gonna check my self into the ER for my pain that no doctor seem to know why?

Vix , sorry to hear of all your woes. We build so many expectations into the Christmas season. In 40 years of Christmases together Ray and I have had a few forgettable ones so I guess you and Greg will have some too.

Just make summer into a season of interesting things to do and waste as little time as possible arguing. Life is too short to waste time on hurt pride and such.

(((Hugs))) from Sue.

hey Vi:

fights are part of relationship. making up after a fight has it's own advantages. I am happy Greg is feeling better already. our whole family is recovering from cold right now.

Asha