Pam:

whenevr I read your blogs you come out as very strong person, and m little scared of u, i guess we all deal with life's adversity differently, some choose to putyheir head in sand annnd assume problem will go away if they don't pay attention, some fights head on, ieverybody have their own style, i have none

just rambling

asha

pam,

i can not BEGIN to tell you how much i understand what you are going through. even though i hated my first husband's guts, the divorce was still painful and depressing to me, i see it as a failure. in my current marriage, i guess i am in denial that things will get better when i know that they won't.

i am just too tired to get divorced right now and go through all of that depression and gloom. so, i just choose to live in it till i'm ready to admit its over and move on. which is depressing in itself. i feel your pain and i DO hope that things lift for you soon. somehow, they always do.

kim

Hey Pam......I could be a "biker type"

..........and I don't wear spandex except for special occasions.

You do just fine with philosophy too, it just takes more time to chew it and get it digested.