Snow and ice gone
The snow is gone for now as we had temperatures in the 70's last week. I was really happy about that as it made it easier for me to get Larry out without either of us falling. Larry has been back for a few more sessions of OT and PT. He was exhausted after Friday's session as Sarah, the PT, worked on stretching and tried him on the machines he will be using next. He is going to be in a program called "Next Step" which is private pay (goodbye Medicare). However, this will be fairly reasonable. The OT even had him use a machine and strapped his left affected hand onto the handle. He seemed to do well with this one, and I wonder why it hadn't been used before with the other OT. The other machine she tried was like a rowing machine and he actually was able to move the left arm a little. He does so much better in this environment as he is with others similar to his disability. He also works harder here. At home, he complains about exercising and now bulks at dressing himself! This morning he said "I would have been better off if I had just died after the stroke instead of being a burden to you." He says this every now and then and of course I tell him "you are going to get better but you have to try." I said "I don't want to be alone again." My first husband died from a brain tumor when he was only 43. I was 37 at the time and stayed single for 12 years until I met Larry. Sometimes I feel like I jinx people I am married to. Anyway, Larry knows he is not alone. All he has to do is look around in the rehab center as there are people in worse shape or who are much younger. God willing we will both get through this. His daughter and our granddaughter are coming over today and maybe this will change his mood.
Julie
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