Kelly:

don't be so hsrd on yourself. try to do your best which is whatever you can do within your physical limits. I usually cook more on a day I m cooking & next day then I have to do just one more additional item which is not hard. having understanding husband makes a great difference in person's life.

try to do your best & rest leave on God.

Asha

Kelly: Bruce's schedule is pretty brutal and I must say that for the most part he handles it with grace and a smile, but every one in a while-every few weeks-he asks "Not today." Since our winter was so horrid here in the NE, we had a lot of down days, where we couldn't get out, and when we finally could, those days were jammed-packed catching up.

I take those days to catch up on my never-ending list of things to do and calls to make. If he rests up, reads and then helps with dinner, it is a good, well-deserved day off. I am sure your husband feels the same.

Don't fall into the guilts. Take the time that your body and brain are telling you that you need to recover.

Prayers, Debbie