this is what I believe Some of you will disagree with me completely, but this is what I think about my life, and gives me ton of peace in where I am today in my life. I feel I am responsible for my own destiny, choices I made in my life some very good, some bad created my destiny. One of the best choice I made was study hard & finish my graduation & then marry a person my parents handpicked for me. I am so thankful & greatful for making that choice I am so glad that my mom was so strict that I was so afraid of doing anything against her wishes & bring shame to our family. I am glad that because of her strictness I didn't do anything stupid & ended up marrying my husband who is the best thing happened to me in my life. Because of him & our son I am at a better place in my life today & able to enjoy my present moment fully even with my disability which I view it as bit of inconvience on how I achieve things in my daily life. so life is still good just little different.