around and around we go
dan has been doing pretty well as of late - mood ok , at least hasent carried the depression for days at a time.. Untill 2 days ago -- he just cant seem to understand the trouble he brings unto himself when he quits eating and drinking ( especially the drinking).. he is shakey and tired and crabby but is not able to see why.. I talk to him till i am blue in the face--- and i mean talk, not preach... but this is what he is deciding again.. And i know where it will land him/us---- back at the hospital dehyderated and possible seizuring.... Enough already.. enough. so tomorrow will probably be the day i take him in to get hyderated again..its so embarrassing..although the staff at the hospital have never made me feel bad...i do tend to do that to myself.. if i were a better caretaker then this behavior wouldnt happen.. yes,yes the intellegnce i have tells me its not my faut but i still have that nagging if only/ or what if...well with all thats going on - of course this depression is gonna raise its head... i'm sure with all the pending changes move to a new home in town -- and selling the farm - it is becoming a control issue.. i cant control that so i will control this ( not eating)..well we are so fond of the saying it is what it is..
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