It becomes like supervising your non-swimming grandchild at the pool, there is danger all around and to the child everything seems to be doable. We are tempted to keep our eyes on them 24 hours a day but for their sake we have to allow them leeway, some human dignity and a chance to do that one new thing that will bring them self-confidence. It is a very hard line to walk.

Sue.

No matter what we do someone will find a way to go around and come up with another idea and will it work or not we don't know yet?