We are still here in AZ... it was so strange that guy also known as my husband, who came and replaced my husband appeared here.. I had not seen that guy in along while. He gave me a real reminder of my world last year at this time.. And dealing with his attitude would have been easier at home but of course this wouldn't have happened if we hadn't left home... And I could have dealt with his behavior if he hadn't been holding the ace of sitting in a car ( luckily a big suv) and having to worry about his blood pooling into his legs... When he is in a bed I can play the game, but man he had all those cards.... Now this really was a good thing to have done again.. And luckily Sarah was here and gave me confidence and a backbone that sometimes goes to jelly... Again his placement choice not tantrum in the car was the real melter for me...so my gamble is working and now maybe we can come back and enjoy this area... Good cause it is forecasted to be -24 below in ND tomorrow.... The school even has said if you choose not to go out the day will not be counted against the student..so factor in windchill and it will easily be in the negative 50's ...yikes !! So I will be here. Till Saturday...... Oh I have forgot ..we had a home intruder on early Sunday morning at about 5 am some creep entered my condo , walked into our garage and then walked into the room Beth was sleeping in then left.... She didn't get alarmed immediately.as she thought her sister was checking on her, nope , then we called and ruled other people out... My conclusion creepy condo neighbor got curious , and knew we weren't home, since our car was gone... No one from the condo was told.... But the conclusion could be drawn, and I recently put in a thermal storage unit aka brick heater. In my garage and I thi k the neighbor was curious what was going on... It was covered going into the garage and then2 weeks later a electrician was wiring in.. But the garage remained shut as I am heating it.... And creepy condo guy just had to know. And Beth left the patio door unlocked by accident, that's how the person entered the condo.... Nothing taken, but he had to know what I had in there.. Well i'llseesoon when I get back their will be a meeting ( I'm sure ) for the condo tenants and I will be grilled on the heating of. My garage then I will know my suspicions are correct ... But I will have a surprise for him, I have filed a police report , reporting our home intrusion.. And I will press charges..... Drama, drama... This country gal gets pushed around only so far before I have had enough..... I will not tolerate anyone invading my privacy... Heck I am scared of me, I have little tolerance for one sided behavior ...he was all about respect and blah, blah blah when using profanities and complaining about my parking and guests parking and the dogs...and if he is the one who entered my home , it will be something he dearly wishes he had not done... We will see..... I am prepared and have laid all my ducks out and I willseeif any start to squeak if stepped on..... Nancyl