Lump in my throat,tears streaming down..
Today, was a good day, but sad. Let me explain. I went with my best friend from high school, and roomie from college, on a little road trip to visit another friend. WE had a good time, but I received a letter from myself today!! Let me explain in more detail... I didn't go to my 10 yr. high school reunion, b/c I wasn't going to take my crippled A to see people I didn't care to see in high school! Well our class had a time capsule.And my high school friends, picked up the item I put in the time capsule. I put some crappy tapes in it, and a letter to myself. It was only 10 yrs ago, but it was sad seeing my old handwriting, as the stroke took my dominant hand. I had such high hopes for my future 10 yrs ago. I didn't think I would end up a stroke survivor of all things. I felt the need to protect the innocent Amy who wrote the letter. I was so young and innocent then. Ten yrs away seemed like a fairy tale! Here is some clips of the letter.
"Dearest Amy,
Hey! It's 10 yrs from now. Is my handwriting the same?
Here is a quick profile of my Senior yr.
Age:18
Weight:110
Height:5'6"
Favorite Song: If I close my eyes forever
"I am planning on going to college, and majoring in Elementary Education, and finding a future husband."
Do I still hear from James? (an ex) NO B/C HE IS DEAD NOW!!
10 YRS FROM NOW: Age 28!!
Lots of wrinkles? 28 seems like a lifetime away, but it will go by fast!
Do I have any kids? I hope I have at least one, a girl.
Am I married? I hope, to a great Christian guy. Was loosing my virginity, as good as I thought?
I hope I waited until I got married.
Who was the first to die in our class?
Are Mom and Dad still alive?
Well I love you Amy, I hope the next ten years are as good as you hoped!
Senior'94
Love,
Amy
I know everyone feels this way, BUT I DIDN't HAVE A FRIGGIN STROKE IN MY PLANS!! sob, sob. I know that none of ya'll did, but I guess, I do a good job of disguising my true hatred to the word stroke! F You Stroke!! I have had an overwhelming bucket of grief poured over me tonight. I wish, there was some way, I could have warned that innocent little 18 yr. old, and made better choices with my life!! What am I going to look back at 10 yrs. from now, and think? I had it good???
poop, I hope not, b/c if it gets worse from here, I am throwing in my towel, in this journey of life!!
I am sure, that I am going to regret this blog, in the morning. I also had photos in the letter too. None were of my prize and blessing daughter.*smile,*smile. I am going to stop typing, before I get more sad, and get to bed. I start my volunteering work at the church tom. I am trying to piece my life back together, but it is so F-ing hard!!
I am sorry, I try to keep my spirits up, but I have been around friends that choose for their biggest medical trauma, to be the anethesia from cosmetic superficial poop.
Hell I wish, I could have blown 10 grand on something superficial, not stroke. I am just busting my ass trying to get a normal leg and arm!! I am shutting up now, time for Xanax and bed awww! relaxing......
Venting,
Amy
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