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Highlights of simple things observed that were taken for granted pre stroke

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new test results

I looked on line for my CT results.   The only thing that made sense to me was: "No new Aneurysm found". Follow up appointment with Neurologist tomorrow. to clarify the other stuff.   Worried over nothing.   be blessed and be a blessing Jay
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Successful shopping trip

The day before Thanksgiving my wife asked if I and my brother would run to the grocery store because she hates to shop. Ad i tecall lastyear I ran my cart into at lrast 8 peop what a edifference a year makes this year my trip to the grocery store was good I didn't bump into any person at all I didn't even have to wear a sign that said blind man walking It really is the small victories that matter isn't it be blessed and be a blessing, Jay
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Validation or an ego boost?

I was sharing some of the Amazing comments left to my post. I joked it was an ego boost. She said you don't need a boost to your ego. She then asked I needed that pre stroke while working. I said no way I was darn good at what I did. She said what about ow. The comments provide me validation. Which is comforting. I love the comments they always put a smile on my face and warms my heart. Thank you all so much. Be blessed and be a blessing, Jay
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Another amazing day communing with nature

My three old friends the three big black crows are back Huey Dewey and Louie perched atop my neighbors roof watching me walk up the road to my bus stop. That it happened the scene reminiscent of the Hitchcock classic the birds filled with black birds. My next thought was where are the seagulls flying nearby being attacked by a starling he must have gotten a little too close to a nest never mess with a mother's darling and the nest. I'm just glad she's chasing after the seagull and not me what
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So thankful for thanksgiving day

Yesterday was totally awesome. Over half of my wivies brothers and sisters made dinner and one of my two brothers made to dinner. What a blessing to be with family. Only 2 years ago I was in a coma for thanksgiving. I am so blessed. I thank God. I agree with Scott that you have become such a huge part of my life. I can't thank you enough for your support over this past year. Be blessed and be a blessing, Jay
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What are you thankfull for?

I'm thankful for a second Chance at life, family, friends and giving others hope the blessing I receive every day. I am thankful I found you all on this site. I pray everyine is truely thankful for the blessings we all receive   Be blessed and be a blessing, Happy thanksgiving. Be well. Jay
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Unexpected thank you

I saw another bus buddy today the young lady I try to help by giving her money cuz she wasn't sure how she was going to get formula for her baby which she refused nd then I saw her at the dollar store and she came outside and asked if she could stand next to me because there was some weird guy in the store following her around and she didn't feel comfortable She asked how I was doing and I said very good how are you and she says great things are finally coming together I'm moving to Texas on F
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Gods grand plan.

On the bus this afternoon I ran into the friend of mine that I have inspired to pay it forward is working with homeless people, she looked at me and said and surrender to God then she said God wanted me to tell you that, then a minute later she turned to me again and said God also want me to tell you that all the bad things that have accumulated in your life will be exceeded by his blessings. What a lovely thought. Be blessed and be a blessing, Jay
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Happy Thanksgiving

I want to extend and a happy Thanksgiving to everyone, and may we all be positive influences on others on our journey Be blessed and be a blessing, Jay
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Lending a helping hand

After going I had my mother in law drop me off at the coffee house where else would I go after a long day of no coffee. The owner asked me if I could do her a favor, I said yes I hope it's something I can do. She had scheduled herself to work with the young lady that works for her yesterday and didn't want to leave the young lady here by herself and I said of course I can hang out hurt me make me stay at the coffeehouse another hour lol. It is really quite limited what I'm able to do this wa
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Another ct scan with contrast.

Perhaps a little nervous, It's been a year since I had my last one which was my first anniversary this is the second anniversary post-stroke I'm hoping it's just a routine can't scan to make sure everything still okay that would be the best case scenario. I'm a little concerned I have had some balance issues lately I've pretty much written it off because I have a sinus infection I just assumed it's affecting my inner ear I'm ready for whatever comes my way with the love and support of my fami
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Another ct scan with contrast.

Perhaps a little nervous, It's been a year since I had my last one which was my first anniversary this is the second anniversary post-stroke I'm hoping it's just a routine can't scan to make sure everything still okay that would be the best case scenario. I'm a little concerned I have had some balance issues lately I've pretty much written it off because I have a sinus infection I just assumed it's affecting my inner ear I'm ready for whatever comes my way with the love and support of my fami
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Acts of kindness sometimes happen unexpectedly

I made one of my buddies who unfortunately uses a wheelchair with the snow and ice on sidewalks I asked her if she needed assistance to get to her first class as she goes to college right now and she said no no problem at all I can make it but thanks for the offer After grabbing a few groceries I was waiting for the bus and I decided it was too cold to wait outside so I decided to wait inside and I sat on one of the little motorized carts and this lady walked in very slowly and she said is is
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Strange day

Sun was shining a beautiful day although it was only if we only got about 20 degrees Fahrenheit today A good friend of mine from the local community theatre group lost his battle with cancer the family had a memorial service today But the stories I heard didn't surprise me about is caring and giving his compassion for others. An avid outdoorsman and a wonderful cook. Had the pleasure of having dinner with him and his wife and he really was a wonderful wonderful cook. Of his colleagues
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Stranger on the bus

As usual, I was chatting with a conete stranger on the bus. She asked what u was doing at the Hospital on a Saturday I told her that I do volunteer work at the hospital with stroke survivors since I am a stroke survivor. To help others while you're helping yourself that is so cool. I thank her for the beautiful comments she looked at me and she said have a blessed day. How amazing to make an impact on people without even trying, and in unexpected situations. I truly am so blessed to be
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Another newbie

I met a man at the hospital today one week post-stroke. We discuss the new normal it's different he is well as his family needs to used to the idea that he won't be able to do all the things used to be able to do. I could stop in and see him next week I did tell him that I will always have the nurses ask him if he's interested in a company I did say to him that it's one of the few things he can control in his life and if he chooses not to speak to me I'm okay with that cuz I get the idea of n
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Another incredible day

Great ciffee great conversation with friends and Tony Bennett music singing Broadway show tunes in the background the Sun is beautiful today but it Hides 1the fact that it's only 30 degrees Fahrenheit. Looks like we're coming into the season where I have to look harder to find the beauty in every day I think old man winter is making his presence known. Just another reminder that I'm still alive. Be blessed and be a blessing. Jay
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Giving back control

Regarding the new be at the hospital that I invited to the face-to-face support group me to make decisions for him which I did it was always voluntary As we all know life post-stroke there's very little you have control over we all have different experiences but I remember I couldn't even go to the bathroom when I was in the hospital and then someone came in to assist me absolutely no control this was his attempt to take back control it's only a perception of lost control but it was the one thi
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Blessings returned

As you know money is tight yesterday while at the coffee house this person came in and said how's your hand I thought he had mistaken me for someone else. You give me a little bit of advice on some exercises I can do while on the bus which was wonderful Yesterday he ordered a mocha cappuccino I said that sounds good and he asked if I wanted one I said of course was one of the best cappuccino that I ever had Today at the coffee house every time I get a couple extra bucks I have throat on a car
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Wow two years a survivor

From what I hear I'm glad I don't remember a lot of my initial month post stroke since I was in intensive care I always tell people Postel newbies the new normal isn't good isn't bad it's just different I really accustom to this new normal and I'm kinda liking it. When I think about how far I've come in the last 2 years I am just humbled and the support and encouragement that I get from the people on this website. Can't forget the support of friends and family. I must admit just like they c
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Newbie in hospital invited to support group

As it turned out the gentleman did not sleep the night before then 2 hours of therapy he was sleeping so I said let him rest.   yesterday I stopped to check on him and he was angry directed at me. the therapy aid had written the support group meeting on the big white board schedule. the newbie yelled at me " if I want to go to therapy ( support group) I'll make that decision, not you.   I told him that group is completely voluntary,   I hope in time he processes through his losses, too e
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Newbie at gospitL.

When meeting with my new friend the other day I invited him to our face-to-face support group which meet tomorrow afternoon he said he was definitely interested because he wants to do everything possible to get out of the hospital I get to get as well as he can be because he's got a full waiting a lot of fish to be caught. I said it good to have a motivating force. I tanked him for allowing me to visit. Be blessed and be a blessing, Jay
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another great day to be alive

Of course those that have read any of my post will know I think every day is a great day to be alive.   I do thank god every day.   Life is so sweet.   Before catching the bus this morning, my daughter dropped of the 18 month old grand son for grandma to watch. when I found the two of them upstairs, I asked if Maverick could give grandpa a kiss he shook his head no and said lala and showed me the dumb dumb sucker he had in his mouth. priorities are set. lol be blessed and be a blessin
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Wonderful Sunday

Creating a new routine, I took my coffee outside to sit on the steps. The the early morning fall air ok Chile I watched the sun rise over lame Huron. How beautiful. The sun's warm rays in my face warmed me and made the brisk fall morning aur tolerable. I tga ked gid for yet another day. I made banana but. Read and nuffubs. Pretty darn good if you,ask me. Lol Be blessed and be a blessing, Jay
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assumed to be homeless

While helping my sisterin law navigate the buses to her pharmacy I was waiting outside and a young man asked if I was ok. I said yes, then he asked if I had a place to stay, I said yes he then said"I help people, I thanked him for his work and concern for me.   When we got back on the bus I told my sister in law the story. She said you don't look homeless, so I posed the question what does a homeless person look like?   I accept the fact that I may not look like the stereotypical homeless
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