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Official End Of Iraq War

According to the national news across all TV channels today the news is all about the war in Iraq ended. It's officially over and the troops are coming home. Being here at Fort Hood Texas I see plane loads daily coming back home to their loved ones and in some cases, their young children whom they have never seen yet.   Being a vet myself, I know the feeling and especially for those wounded and some that will be looking forward to returning to their jobs while others search for employment afte

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The XMAS Party Was A Blast

I, we, enjoyed the company party. I got to dance after awhile. They started off with line dancing. That was too many turns for my feet so I kept my seat. My wife danced every dance and cooled off with a Heineken and a shot of whiskey. After a while she gave me the keys to the car. I guess I was like the Gecko on the dance floor. The center of attraction but "I DID IT!" Hooray for me! All the photos were taken by a photo company and you could have portraits done too at their setup in a corner of

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Christmas Party Tonight

Tonight is the night for the Christmas party and there are two things I hope happens! First I hope I'm welcomed by all the employees and perhaps dance with a few of them and my wife. Although she's been telling me I'm going to make her fall in high heels on the dance floor! Secondly, I hope she can grab the right number for one of those envelopes with the money in it. If not perhaps she can get a big prise from the table as they usually have some pretty good stuff on the table covered up and gua

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Almost That Time To Dance The Night Away

Well, many of you may have read comments or a post about me trying to get prepared and dancing shoes in hand for my debut on the dance floor. I feel and think that when you really feel you can do something, you ought to do it the best you can. My wife has her company Christmas party later this month and I plan on getting out on the floor and kick up my heels! The best I can do is succeed, the worse is stumble a bit or fall without injuries.   When the dance floor is full it's hard to hit the f

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I BELIEVE we all can make a difference in who we are

I read a blog by Asha named Bozos...It prompted me to submit this blog I received in the mail after reading a post of another member feeling family members of her spouse has gone away leaving her to be the care giver alone! So, here goes!...   A birth certificate shows that we were born. A death certificate shows that we died. Pictures show that we lived!   I believe...That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other, and just because they don't argue, it doesn'

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Eight Years Recovering On 15 January 2012

In less than two months I will have been recovering for 8 months. I'm so glad I never gave up on getting better. It's been a long journey to say the least but knowing one day I would be better I just kept praying to God! Sure enough right from the beginning I have been blessed. The stroke happened at 11am while I was home alone. It started in my left hand, the first to go, then my elbow got numb. I stood up turned and fell tried standing again and fell again.   I passed out at that point and m

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Are you Medicare Eligible? 65 Or Older

Happy Thanksgiving Day! If you drink, don't drive Please! :Tantrum: It's this Thursday the 24th! Now on to the subject matter:   If you are 65 or older and not registered for Medicare yet...Then between now and January is the time to get it done without missing out on the scheduled raise in January 2012. I know, I know many folks want be eligible to draw their FULL social security until they reach 66 or later. When you turn 65 it's time to register for Medicare!   http://www.medicare.gov/def

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MORE WALKING WITHOUT THE CANE!

Well, well, well I'm almost at 8 years recovering. It seem like a long, long road but on the other hand people are saying to me, "Has it been that long?" Yes it has and I feel every year of it but I thank my God he wasn't ready for me back then and I'm still here.   It's good to feel better about yourself and your ability to recover. Sure it's slow but it's steady and I feel so blessed to still be here. One time I told myself I would walk again soon when I was still in the hospital. Well, I re

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11-11-11 VETERANS DAY

11-11-11 is Veterans Day this year and it happens to be a Friday. I salute all our veterans whom have given their all...THEIR LIVES. We shall honor our Veterans whom are still at war fighting for our rights to remain a free country. The brave men and women of the Armed Forces deserve our thank you on this day each year and really every day of the year.   We have many veterans here on this site whom have retired but was stricken by stroke. Some with other medical conditions in need of all our p

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Nothing New And Life Goes On Daily!

Well, I'm back on the site today. I did get a chance to look in a couple times but wasn't much being said in the way of news. I think everybody was taking a break. For me I just been trying to continue to walk without my cane. Like everything else we try or attempt there are good days and naturally some not so good days. I'm happy to say I have walked on all kinds of surfaces, inclines and all without a single slip or fall. So in my mind I'm making good progress. And I thought and have said many

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A Stroke Is An Emergency

The message below can be found on the doctors TV show which aired today 1 November. You can visit their wedsite below:   http://www.thedoctorsTV.com       A Stroke Is an Emergency! – October 27, 2011   I am writing this a few days before Halloween, which seems fitting — because there are not many things scarier than a stroke. Like a heart attack, a stroke can come on suddenly, with little or no advance warning. And like a heart attack, a stroke can cause serious and lasting damage, or it

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I Read Other Blogs...They Gave Me Inspiration

I read blogs last week and today by other members and they made me think! I have to be very glad to be in a recovery mode, I'm very much alive and trying my level best to do all I can to walk and be very close to doing what I knew to do before the stroke changed things in my life. Should I keep that thought and mind set I'm bound to get better with time and really have no reason whatsoever to think anything differently. I have been at recovering almost 8 years and I know now it takes time for wh

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I'm All Excited...My walking Unassisted Is Working!

I just had to tell all of you my walking unassisted is improving each day. I got the right health care lady working with me. She tells me, "I am not falling on her watch." I didn't realize it's that much of a difference walking with a quad cane and a single point cane. I have a hand loop string on my cane to keep from dropping it. That works great cause I can hold the cane not letting it touch the ground and walk unassisted. But it's there if I need it.   I went back to the VA this morning to

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Finally trying to walk unassisted and It's Working

It will be 8 years on January 15th 2012, since the stroke put me on a cane and a scooter in 2004. My in home health provider is trying her best to help me walk again with no support. It's working and I'm working at it daily in several ways. I'm working with different machines at the senior center to gain strength in the weak leg. Then at home I got things I work with to help even more assisted by my health provider three days a week.   I hope to be more consistent by year's end. Already I gave

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Raising Your Children

I just finished watching the evening news, world and local. It raises my blood pressure to see young boys in trouble for robbing and committing senseless crimes to end up in jail then prison for life. The same boys and some girls too are those we see everyday with their pants falling off and underwear showing. How do they ever expect to get a job as they get older with the mind set they have in how they are conducting themselves.   The bible says in Proverbs 22:6, "Train up a child in the way

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Halloween is coming

Not everybody get into Halloween, I did as a child going door to door getting enough candy and goodies to last until the next year. My step daughter and her daughter doesn't believe in it. She say it's for the devils and believers. I said well, I guess I was a devil as a child because we sure went out trick-or-treating in the neighborhood.   Some of you here may remember back some years when people started putting all kinds of stuff in the candy and giving it to the kids. About that time is w

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Out Of Town For The Columbus Holiday

Well, guys it's time to get out the house grab my wife and take a couple days off. We should be back in town on Wednesday all rested up. We decided not to go to New Orleans but to Shreveport, LA instead because it's only a short drive compared to New Orleans at eight hours speeding.   So we got hotel and buffet free thanks to her comps by playing in their casino. I play so little I never get any comps but she can sit and play for hours on the penny machines. I play the quarter machines that ta

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How Blessed We Are As Survivors

:big_grin: You know, in general terms all of us are blessed to have survived strokes, child berth, body complications and all kinds of situations in our lives that brings us together here at Stroke Net! I read where a member or two had the stroke just after child berth. Both baby and moms are doing OK.   I read Sue's blog where she is becoming a grand mother again and it started me thinking of how many others are still around to see grand kids whether we are the stroke survivor or we are the

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Life Without A Mate!

I can't imagine life without a mate! The last two days I have been laid out with a virus I'm told. Nevertheless when food doesn't stay on your stomach your head is spinning, hurting and you are throwing up all at the same time I feel you are sick, real sick. That is no fun at all. My wife was by my side. I don't know if she thought I would make it or she wanted to be by my side in case I didn't make it!   It was scary and right now I'm still very weak. First we thought Flu and I didn't get my

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NEW School Prayer

It's said this was written by a kid in Arizona... Since the "Pledge of Allegiance" and "The Lords Prayer" are not allowed in most public schools anymore because the word "God" is mentioned...I'm getting it from my church bulletin today!   Now I sit me down in school Where praying is against the rule For this great nation under God Finds mention of Him very odd.   Scriptures now the class recites It violates the Bill of Rights And anytime my head I bow Becomes a Federal matter now.  

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Taking A Much Needed Break

Today is Friday the middle of the month of September. It has been one big month with so many things happening and the weather going from extreme heat to a cool down then heat again! There is just so much going on daily in this city like the council looking for a new city manager to water rationing cattle being sold or shipped up north where food and water is readily available.   We have meetings on Fort Hood for the Wounder Warriors program, meeting new wounder soldiers returning home while ot

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Military Veterans

Many of you know I'm here in Killeen Texas at the front gate of Fort Hood Texas. There are many veterans returning from the war zones. Many of them are hurt and disabled. Loss of arms/hands, legs/foot and brain injuries are just a few of the many injures they have suffered doing this Iraq and Afghanistan war. It's not over yet so there will be many other men and women returning home as Wounder Warriors by the time the order is given to end this war.   Some of them will be leaving the different

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September 11 Was Grand Parents Day This Year

We all know around the world that September 11, 2011 marked ten years since many innocent lives were lost when the US came under attack by a terrorist attack. Yesterday was somber in that regard as many prayers went up from many people to a higher power! We pray that never happens again in the free world around the globe and that peace can be obtained between nations where no lives are lost for no reason!   I spent most of the day yesterday in church services and in prayer for our survivors ri

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Jacket Season And Weather Is Approaching Texas

Counting the triple digit days are over I think. After all it is September now the beaches and swimming pools are closed, kids are back in school and we are looking forward to cooler days and nights here in Texas. The wild fires are still burning all over Texas with no end in sight. Homes are being burned too. We sure could use the rain. The grass is brown and burned from the drought conditions this summer.   Some will say it's over due for cooler weather to be upon us and it may still be a fe

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Labor Day, The Paid Holiday For Many Folks

Well Labor Day as I know it to be was the last day the beaches and public pools were open for the summer. That was always the big ending to summer fun years ago and the day before school started for the fall/winter semesters. My that seem like it was ages ago for me. I can't remember me ever getting paid for that holiday but I suppose I did one time or another! I can only remember now that I'm a lot older these days and my wife is off work from the bank she has held for so many years.   Here a

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